Friday, December 5, 2008
between two people in conflict
sometimes there is a middle person, make that, innocent middle person
like parents and kids and between a group of friends
so , being the middle person, you can;t really SIDE any one,
and its REALLY difficut because its quite difficult to sound neutral , unless you have similar perspective as either party. and when you are not careful,they think you are trying to protect the person they are against. or.. don;t know, think that you hate them too. i don;t know. people are strange. So we either blame both and then retaliate, or we be accommodating and just respect what both wants and just be a friend; be there when they need you ! and just work your way around the conflict areas.
but,
between three good friends, why should one pay the price
and between parents, why should children pay the price?
of course i guess the more humaneeeee thing , [that is if you want peace for one and all] is to try accommodating everyone;s needs.
btu its FRICKINg annoying when you use this conflict with this person as an excuse for EVERYTHING you do, and you are straining the relationship with this middle man. like OH !! we can;t go to this place,,cos he she lovse this place. OH you can;t celebrate your birthday with him her becuase you are to spend it with me! or,, OH you can;t go on that holiday with him her becuase you are supposed to go for this opening with me. You dont control the stuck-in-the-middle man , as a friend/parent wtv, you should respect their decision / [ ideally] but of course its not always like this.
and thats why i am so SO SICK and tired of this, damn it.
can you please 닥쳐즐래?! @@@
haha, ok i;m ok now, its okkkkkkkkk ~~ like i always say~
haha..recently discovered a huge dislike for the word prom. .. *shivers*so,, anyway~! i will post the GRAD night pics on Facebook sometime soon : D so,, i;ll let you guys know when its REALLY up .lol
by the way, she asked me what my hobby is. and i couldn't answer her. goodness.
oh well, enjoy life!
sometimes there is a middle person, make that, innocent middle person
like parents and kids and between a group of friends
so , being the middle person, you can;t really SIDE any one,
and its REALLY difficut because its quite difficult to sound neutral , unless you have similar perspective as either party. and when you are not careful,they think you are trying to protect the person they are against. or.. don;t know, think that you hate them too. i don;t know. people are strange. So we either blame both and then retaliate, or we be accommodating and just respect what both wants and just be a friend; be there when they need you ! and just work your way around the conflict areas.
but,
between three good friends, why should one pay the price
and between parents, why should children pay the price?
of course i guess the more humaneeeee thing , [that is if you want peace for one and all] is to try accommodating everyone;s needs.
btu its FRICKINg annoying when you use this conflict with this person as an excuse for EVERYTHING you do, and you are straining the relationship with this middle man. like OH !! we can;t go to this place,,cos he she lovse this place. OH you can;t celebrate your birthday with him her becuase you are to spend it with me! or,, OH you can;t go on that holiday with him her becuase you are supposed to go for this opening with me. You dont control the stuck-in-the-middle man , as a friend/parent wtv, you should respect their decision / [ ideally] but of course its not always like this.
and thats why i am so SO SICK and tired of this, damn it.
can you please 닥쳐즐래?! @@@
haha, ok i;m ok now, its okkkkkkkkk ~~ like i always say~
haha..recently discovered a huge dislike for the word prom. .. *shivers*so,, anyway~! i will post the GRAD night pics on Facebook sometime soon : D so,, i;ll let you guys know when its REALLY up .lol
by the way, she asked me what my hobby is. and i couldn't answer her. goodness.
oh well, enjoy life!
what we could have been, 6:11 AM.
