Sunday, April 26, 2009
do people not know how to read body language anymore?
when i have heard your comments about me, and i do not change anything, it obviously mean that i do not really mind about the comments, and i still want to do the things i do,. and how i want to do it. its fine if you tell me once, or twice,. and if i don;t change the way i do it , then STOP FORCING your opinion on me get it ? why not you let me either figure out that HEY PERHAPS you were right? ?? THAN trying to make me change now ?
and can you believe its about STYLE that i am talking about ?
but nonetheless, it can be applied to anything.
by the way, derogatory and UNTACTFUL comments are seriously NECESSARY.
why do you have to say things like
" IF I WERE YOU I WOULD TAKE WINDSURFING INSTEAD OF WAKE BOARDING".
perhaps there is an implication, perhaps there isn't .
maybe it just means that you prefer windsurfing thats all, thats totally cool i understand , but i have already signed up for wake boarding, so why must it be " IF I WERE YOU?" if u really want to , then take windsurfing lah?
and , oh another FAMOUS comment.
" I WOULDN:T DYE my hair if i were you, it makes the hair really dry and such" . i am sorry ,did i ever ask you if i could dye my hair or what? who are you to make the choice for me ? and secondly , do you know how FKING embarassing that is ? ? like when you are out in the public ,and they say things like " OHHHHHHH you shouldn;t dye your hair" . but you know what., i ALREADY DID ? so now that you tell me this, it makes me feel inferior about my hair? and what am i supposed to do about it ? ?? i can't make it LESS DRY or anything ? . now this is what i call, necessary comments?!? or like, hair colour , or hair cut, like "OH YOU CAN:T cut a bob, it is ... . ", , so what can you do about it ? its super embarassing you know, ANd secondly, who is to tell you that you CAN, CANNOT or SHOULD or SHOULD NOT wear your hair the way you love., want or LIKE?! Wth
or, if i bought, a computer, that is WHITE!. so, you don;t like WHITE, and you say. " if i were you , i would buy green " ..o k. so, you like green, then you can buy it ?
you get it ?
or like, she MADE a dress, its red on the inside , and blue on the outside, and you keep harping how weird the red is. Do you know how embarrassed she may feel ? what is she to do ?
do you know? if i told you that you should lose weight, i don;'t keep harping on it right? and if you like to let down your hair , when it is dry or wtv, i also don;t comment that YOU SHOULD or shouldn;t . RIGHT? of course , as long as you don't look overwhelmingly Ridiculous , i won;t comment. its your style, your preference, your choices, i can't make them for you, i don;t tell you what is right or wrong.
you are raving about something you just bought, did to yourself , like perhaps, got a new haircut,. or ,, you bought a piece of furniture which you AbSoLuTely LoVEEeEE!~~~ woooooo . so ,, if i didn;t like it, and someone else commented on it like " oh thats TOTALLY ugly.. urhg guhruh ugh " .what are you to do about it ? you also can't sell it away or ,. exchange it ,, and in that case, CHANGE your hair cut immediately or anything right? i mean you like it, and so, no one can really change your opinion about it right. geez. so this is what i mean by, not mentioning any unnecessary comments.
i have said my piece.
i forsee lots of cussing in the minds of many.
but wtv.
* extremely irritated and angry.
and sorry, i am not being petty, its not the first time, and those examples mentioned above, are accumulated Observations i have seen that have been felt by other people and some by myself, and all have happened within the past 4 years.
when i have heard your comments about me, and i do not change anything, it obviously mean that i do not really mind about the comments, and i still want to do the things i do,. and how i want to do it. its fine if you tell me once, or twice,. and if i don;t change the way i do it , then STOP FORCING your opinion on me get it ? why not you let me either figure out that HEY PERHAPS you were right? ?? THAN trying to make me change now ?
and can you believe its about STYLE that i am talking about ?
but nonetheless, it can be applied to anything.
by the way, derogatory and UNTACTFUL comments are seriously NECESSARY.
why do you have to say things like
" IF I WERE YOU I WOULD TAKE WINDSURFING INSTEAD OF WAKE BOARDING".
perhaps there is an implication, perhaps there isn't .
maybe it just means that you prefer windsurfing thats all, thats totally cool i understand , but i have already signed up for wake boarding, so why must it be " IF I WERE YOU?" if u really want to , then take windsurfing lah?
and , oh another FAMOUS comment.
" I WOULDN:T DYE my hair if i were you, it makes the hair really dry and such" . i am sorry ,did i ever ask you if i could dye my hair or what? who are you to make the choice for me ? and secondly , do you know how FKING embarassing that is ? ? like when you are out in the public ,and they say things like " OHHHHHHH you shouldn;t dye your hair" . but you know what., i ALREADY DID ? so now that you tell me this, it makes me feel inferior about my hair? and what am i supposed to do about it ? ?? i can't make it LESS DRY or anything ? . now this is what i call, necessary comments?!? or like, hair colour , or hair cut, like "OH YOU CAN:T cut a bob, it is ... . ", , so what can you do about it ? its super embarassing you know, ANd secondly, who is to tell you that you CAN, CANNOT or SHOULD or SHOULD NOT wear your hair the way you love., want or LIKE?! Wth
or, if i bought, a computer, that is WHITE!. so, you don;t like WHITE, and you say. " if i were you , i would buy green " ..o k. so, you like green, then you can buy it ?
you get it ?
or like, she MADE a dress, its red on the inside , and blue on the outside, and you keep harping how weird the red is. Do you know how embarrassed she may feel ? what is she to do ?
do you know? if i told you that you should lose weight, i don;'t keep harping on it right? and if you like to let down your hair , when it is dry or wtv, i also don;t comment that YOU SHOULD or shouldn;t . RIGHT? of course , as long as you don't look overwhelmingly Ridiculous , i won;t comment. its your style, your preference, your choices, i can't make them for you, i don;t tell you what is right or wrong.
you are raving about something you just bought, did to yourself , like perhaps, got a new haircut,. or ,, you bought a piece of furniture which you AbSoLuTely LoVEEeEE!~~~ woooooo . so ,, if i didn;t like it, and someone else commented on it like " oh thats TOTALLY ugly.. urhg guhruh ugh " .what are you to do about it ? you also can't sell it away or ,. exchange it ,, and in that case, CHANGE your hair cut immediately or anything right? i mean you like it, and so, no one can really change your opinion about it right. geez. so this is what i mean by, not mentioning any unnecessary comments.
i have said my piece.
i forsee lots of cussing in the minds of many.
but wtv.
* extremely irritated and angry.
and sorry, i am not being petty, its not the first time, and those examples mentioned above, are accumulated Observations i have seen that have been felt by other people and some by myself, and all have happened within the past 4 years.
what we could have been, 7:51 AM.
