Tuesday, April 21, 2009
These few days,
i keep questioning parenting methods.
in our minds, sometimes we wish this, we wish that, we wish that they didn;t meddle so much, we wish that they didn;t do this to us, we wish that they didn;t stop us.
but many of these things actually molded us into the person we are today.
it may be good to a certain extent,. but sometimes i feel that the choice of words used by adults have caused some unwanted derogatory results. perhaps the things they say like YOU should this, you should that . YOU SHOULD. YOU MUST this and that.
i think it kinda inculcates some form of fear to do things.... sometimes somethings,, parents need to neither encourage or discourage their child from doing, but rather let them explore by themselves. Seeing how these things occur, i really can;t help but wonder what might happen.
but anyway, since we are already grown up and have a mind of our own, we can distinguish what is good and not good . so we could forgive and just move on, what has happened has happened and don't let the past control what you are going to do.
Anyway, the M0h is giving me a chance!!!!! and this saturday i am going for the test!! i am really really excited about it, feeling butterflies in my stomach when i think about it. Its really a lot to consider! and i hope i can prepare well for it , ,, there is so much i still don;t know, ,and so much to know still, so i really pray hard.@@
i must go on higher
and i must not stop myself
i must improve.
i keep questioning parenting methods.
in our minds, sometimes we wish this, we wish that, we wish that they didn;t meddle so much, we wish that they didn;t do this to us, we wish that they didn;t stop us.
but many of these things actually molded us into the person we are today.
it may be good to a certain extent,. but sometimes i feel that the choice of words used by adults have caused some unwanted derogatory results. perhaps the things they say like YOU should this, you should that . YOU SHOULD. YOU MUST this and that.
i think it kinda inculcates some form of fear to do things.... sometimes somethings,, parents need to neither encourage or discourage their child from doing, but rather let them explore by themselves. Seeing how these things occur, i really can;t help but wonder what might happen.
but anyway, since we are already grown up and have a mind of our own, we can distinguish what is good and not good . so we could forgive and just move on, what has happened has happened and don't let the past control what you are going to do.
Anyway, the M0h is giving me a chance!!!!! and this saturday i am going for the test!! i am really really excited about it, feeling butterflies in my stomach when i think about it. Its really a lot to consider! and i hope i can prepare well for it , ,, there is so much i still don;t know, ,and so much to know still, so i really pray hard.@@
i must go on higher
and i must not stop myself
i must improve.
what we could have been, 7:22 AM.
