Saturday, April 10, 2010
just highlight the portions i agree with,
n general, ESFJs are helpful people who place a high value on harmony. Paying close attention to people's needs and wants, they work well with others to complete tasks in a timely and accurate way. ESFJs follow through on their commitments. They like closure and prefer structured, organized situations in which warmth and compassion are shown. They contribute to others by anticipating their day-to-day concerns and handling them with warmth and efficiency. ESFJs are at their best in organizing people to get a job .
Because ESFJs are caring individuals, they expect to give and receive in their relationships. Because others may not be as thoughtful as the ESFJ, it is a possible source of disappointment to them if they expect the same awareness and caring on the part of the partner. Being practical and realistic, they may not always like effusive shows of affection and prefer moderation instead. ESFJs may be more loyal to the relationship or to the institution of marriage than to the person. ESFJs may take the end of the relationship as a personal failure
Kind, sympathetic, cooperative and forgiving. Friend types are very concerned about the welfare of those around them and are generally kind and friendly to everyone. They are very sympathetic and tend to be emotional. They are generally cooperative and accommodating, but don't usually like to take the lead in social groups
n general, ESFJs are helpful people who place a high value on harmony. Paying close attention to people's needs and wants, they work well with others to complete tasks in a timely and accurate way. ESFJs follow through on their commitments. They like closure and prefer structured, organized situations in which warmth and compassion are shown. They contribute to others by anticipating their day-to-day concerns and handling them with warmth and efficiency. ESFJs are at their best in organizing people to get a job .
Because ESFJs are caring individuals, they expect to give and receive in their relationships. Because others may not be as thoughtful as the ESFJ, it is a possible source of disappointment to them if they expect the same awareness and caring on the part of the partner. Being practical and realistic, they may not always like effusive shows of affection and prefer moderation instead. ESFJs may be more loyal to the relationship or to the institution of marriage than to the person. ESFJs may take the end of the relationship as a personal failure
Kind, sympathetic, cooperative and forgiving. Friend types are very concerned about the welfare of those around them and are generally kind and friendly to everyone. They are very sympathetic and tend to be emotional. They are generally cooperative and accommodating, but don't usually like to take the lead in social groups
when i read this , i felt that it kinda almost describe what i palce most importance on..and describes me partially.. sometimes i dont really find my own needs important,, perhaps its because i feel that i am insignificant, and that other people could do better with the same resource. though these many years ithought of this as a flaw, becuase iwas so easily influenced.. like a highly polarised molecule,,, i really hated it , i thought i had an identity crises cos i just couldnt tell what i am , what i lke n things like that cos iwas just way too easily influenced ( till now too, ,ahha)...,, just my way of doing thigns sometimes,, but it can really suck sometimes, i realise that i am always the one giving in in a friendship .the one compromising, the one saying sorry, APOLOGIZING even though its not my fault., the one initiating ,, bringing closure to things even thuogh i was not the one who started it, the one trying to patch a broken friendship even though it was someone elses fault,.
iit really makes me tired, that i always give in, and people dont really give in to me,,, that sucks big time,, i wonder if thats the reason why my friends are in my life now,i mean they hurt me so often,, not that they know it,, they may be mean and stuff, its either they dont know that they are hurting me,, or that they dont care that they are, they dont bother to be watchful,, and ,,, is that the reason why they are here?,is it so that i learn how to deal with the hurt always?
this is why i am restricted to a few close friends only,, ahah i may become too vulnerable
sian
anyway
been very intrigued by reading the bible.
wow i hope to answer questions,
hmm
i read the papers today, it just made me very depressed again
i mean what am i doing studying this?? should i be doing something else,, maybe something i can be more useful in,, i dont know if i have that kind of knowledge that is necessary to thrive and contribute in this area of study!,, then back to speech pathology dreams.........................
God please tell me what to do,,
id ont mind,, that i change major next semester.. i dont mind if i go overseas next semester, i dont mind if i change graudate studies, i dont mind.. i just want to be in the right direction.
oh well tiem to study
: )
iit really makes me tired, that i always give in, and people dont really give in to me,,, that sucks big time,, i wonder if thats the reason why my friends are in my life now,i mean they hurt me so often,, not that they know it,, they may be mean and stuff, its either they dont know that they are hurting me,, or that they dont care that they are, they dont bother to be watchful,, and ,,, is that the reason why they are here?,is it so that i learn how to deal with the hurt always?
this is why i am restricted to a few close friends only,, ahah i may become too vulnerable
sian
anyway
been very intrigued by reading the bible.
wow i hope to answer questions,
hmm
i read the papers today, it just made me very depressed again
i mean what am i doing studying this?? should i be doing something else,, maybe something i can be more useful in,, i dont know if i have that kind of knowledge that is necessary to thrive and contribute in this area of study!,, then back to speech pathology dreams.........................
God please tell me what to do,,
id ont mind,, that i change major next semester.. i dont mind if i go overseas next semester, i dont mind if i change graudate studies, i dont mind.. i just want to be in the right direction.
oh well tiem to study
: )
what we could have been, 8:58 AM.
